
Monday, November 17, 2025
Waning Moon
Neptune, Saturn, Chiron, Uranus, Mercury, Jupiter Retrograde
And we have another week with six retrogrades pressing down on us. Deep breath. Some days, some moments are harder than others, and we just do the best we can. There’s a lot of toxic positivity going on about the retrogrades right now. If your experience is different than what they’re spouting, there’s nothing wrong with you. You’re having YOUR experience; they are trying to make a living from their work. Those two things might not be compatible.
Again, deep breath.
We have a new moon on Thursday. I suggest making it a gentle new moon of rest and hope, rather than making a lot of plans. I suggest looking at ways to simplify the holiday season so that you can actually enjoy it, rather than running around frantically based on expectations. There’s a lot that’s not working right now, and it’s not because you’re not doing enough “positive thinking” it’s because the systems designed to oppress are working. So carve out your small joys, and let them build into bigger ones that work for YOU. Disengage from as many toxic people and situations as you can, even if they are family related. Choose your family and your peace, as much as you can.
I much prefer sitting on my sofa watching the snow with a cat in my lap than racing around in the car making round after round of visits. Sending a card (be it physical or virtual) lets people know I am genuinely thinking about them and wishing them well, while still giving me physical and mental room to slow down. Baking cookies for friends and neighbors lets them know I want them to feel special and remembered. Your way might be something different. See what works for you.
This is one of my spreads, that I call The Elemental Spread. It is very similar to many of the Medicine Wheel spreads I’ve seen, but I made a few tweaks to the way I use it over the years.
We start in the center, with Spirit/Self. This is the overall energy of the week, and how we relate to it.
We move to the position above, with is North/Tangibles, connected to the element of Earth, advice on how to deal with the week on a tangible, materialistic level.
We move clockwise to the third position, East/Thought, connected to the element of Air, advice on how to intellectually deal with the week.
Then we move down to the bottom of the spread, the 4th position, South/Passion, connected to the element of Fire, advice on how to deal with the week from a place of passion and identity.
Then we move up to the left side of the spread, the 5th position, West/Emotion, connected to the element of Water, advice on how to deal with the week from a place of creativity and emotion.
We wind up where we started, at the spirit center, integrating all the information for the week.
For the month of November, we are using the Crow Tarot, by MJ Cullinane. You can learn more about the creator’s work and purchase the deck here.
These interpretations are mine, based on my experience, intuition and responses to the artwork. You may have a different experience. This is an overview of the week as it stands now; every decision we make from the moment of the reading can change the outcome. If there’s something in the reading that worries you, you have the information ahead of time so that you can plan, make better choices, or handle it differently than predicted for a better outcome. Tarot sets out possibilities, which you change through your choices and actions.
As I’m working on this reading, my local murder of crows is checking things out through the windows. Too funny!
Center – Spirit/Self: The Sun
It’s always a joy to see this card turn up anywhere in a reading, because it is profoundly positive. As the card literally and figuratively at the center of this reading, it reminds us that our souls burn brightly. The crow rides the white horse through the field of sunflowers. Be aware, this week, of the joys all around you. Treasure each smile, each kind word, each breeze, each sip of your favorite beverage, each time your cat purrs. There’s more than one way to ride to success, and you are on your way to finding yours.
North – Earth/Tangibles: The Devil
The Devil is a card of being tied (chained, as depicted by the art) to earthly things. And it landed in the north this week. Could it be a warning not to get too caught up in things like holiday shopping and the push to consume? Yes, it could. Sit with that a minute, and see if it resonates. What I’m getting, for myself, is that tangibles this week are also a way to success and freedom, tying it back to the sun. Small joys in the daily physicality of life will help you break the larger chains associated with the Devil this week.
East – Air/Thought/Intellect – Four of Swords
I love the 4 of Swords –the R & R card! Even better, this week, it lands in its home position of air. It’s time for some deep rest. That will help clear the way for your inner sunshine. Instead of the negative connotations of the Devil Card, build yourself a comfortable and cozy bower this week, and spend time in it, resting. If you’re a yoga person, do a lot of extra savasana or legs-up-the-wall pose or yoga Nidra. Go to bed earlier, if possible. Sleep in a little later, if possible – even 15 minutes can feel like a beautiful indulgence. Let yourself dream. This week, do less and dream more.
South – Fire/Passion/Identity – Six of Cups
The cards that turned up thus far in the reading aligned with the position in which they landed in the reading – the Sun at the center of spirit, the Devil at the earth position, the 4 of Swords in the air position. Now we are at fire, the passionate position of identity, burning bright – and we have a water/emotion card, the 6 of Cups. The 6 of Cups is about generosity and nostalgia. Can you help out at a youth program this week? Can you give advice or kindness to a younger member of your family or in your neighborhood? Do you have a fond memory with someone in your past, and write a card to let them know you’re thinking of them? Can you make a donation or volunteer time or share a social media post of a small business or artist to give them a little boost? Aside: In Feng Shui, fire and water make steam, which is incredibly powerful. That’s why you want to put a mirror over your fireplace, for balance and steam power, not a flat screen tv (electricity is associated with fire).
Water – West/Creativity/Emotion: Six of Wands
Here in the water position, we have a fire card. We can produce more steam! The 6 of Wands is about victory and esteem. The crow is in a laurel wreath, admired by other crows. Since it’s in the west position, you are likely to have a creative victory that brings acclaim, which then brings us back to the Sun at the center, a card of hope, optimism and success.
So, in spite of all the retrogrades and all the chaos out in the world, if we pull in a bit this week, rest, take care of ourselves in a way that makes us feel cherished (not in the ways we are told to perform “self-care”), we can extend kindness and have a creative victory that brings us even more success.
The temptation this week is to rush around and get everything done before American Thanksgiving next week, but this reading is suggesting that we take advantage of the slow-down of six retrogrades, and use it as a way to restore ourselves in order to meet the holiday season with more genuine pleasure and equanimity.
Did anything in the reading resonate with you, or did you get something completely different? I’d love to hear from you in the comments!